Comments on: Detachment: Scorpio vs Aquarius http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/ astrology babble, dreams, and a deck of Tarot cards Fri, 27 Aug 2010 23:40:13 +0000 hourly 1 By: Alice http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-245 Alice Mon, 21 Jun 2010 15:54:49 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-245 I am a Scorpio and I dated an Aquarius on and off throughout high school - grad school (10 years total about 7 years altogether minus the many break ups lol.) He was so negative, liked to pick fights and complain. I am happy-go-luck and like to laugh. But I do keep to myself and share things *only* when I am ready to. He would try to pressure me to telling him everything that was on my mind which made me shut down even more. Have no idea why I stayed so long - maybe because of this history and we had all of our "firsts" together. I am NOT a fan of Aquarians at all!!!!!!!!!! I am a Scorpio and I dated an Aquarius on and off throughout high school – grad school (10 years total about 7 years altogether minus the many break ups lol.)

He was so negative, liked to pick fights and complain. I am happy-go-luck and like to laugh. But I do keep to myself and share things *only* when I am ready to. He would try to pressure me to telling him everything that was on my mind which made me shut down even more.

Have no idea why I stayed so long – maybe because of this history and we had all of our “firsts” together.

I am NOT a fan of Aquarians at all!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: taurusrising http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-185 taurusrising Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:39:43 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-185 I admit, I wasn't a big fan of Scorpio, either - at least in the beginning. Since I've gotten into astrology and learned more about the sign - I've come to appreciate it a little more. I still don't like the vagueness that I've come to know with some of the Scorpios I've encountered. I admit, I wasn't a big fan of Scorpio, either – at least in the beginning. Since I've gotten into astrology and learned more about the sign – I've come to appreciate it a little more. I still don't like the vagueness that I've come to know with some of the Scorpios I've encountered.

]]> By: jas http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-182 jas Thu, 19 Nov 2009 12:45:35 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-182 I don't like Scorpio at all You say they don't like half truths, but half truths are may be all we know from them I believe in being equals... Detachment: I think Scorpio can play the bastard/ b***h better than Aquarius, who just wants to rebel, but not necessarily being a b**** I don't like Scorpio at all

You say they don't like half truths, but half truths are may be all we know from them

I believe in being equals…

Detachment: I think Scorpio can play the bastard/ b***h better than Aquarius, who just wants to rebel, but not necessarily being a b****

]]> By: nes-scorptau http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-84 nes-scorptau Tue, 25 Aug 2009 10:51:33 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-84 I would not know about aquarians but I know for sure that a real scorpio is detached. as bnmotion mentioned, scorpios will become so cold not because that is a mask but because that is what they really feel. they are so afraid of being hurt and being left alone. they are jealous of their loved ones and they will feel ditched most of the time by the actions of them. they just cannot take all this so they need to become detached. they have high social energy but they will not use it for social occasions because they are afraid to get hurt again. probably that is why they are prone to have sex -they will need to release their social energy. I would not know about aquarians but I know for sure that a real scorpio is detached. as bnmotion mentioned, scorpios will become so cold not because that is a mask but because that is what they really feel. they are so afraid of being hurt and being left alone. they are jealous of their loved ones and they will feel ditched most of the time by the actions of them. they just cannot take all this so they need to become detached. they have high social energy but they will not use it for social occasions because they are afraid to get hurt again. probably that is why they are prone to have sex -they will need to release their social energy.

]]> By: taurusrising http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-72 taurusrising Wed, 19 Aug 2009 06:20:01 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-72 If I'm remembering correctly, you have Venus in Pisces right? I think that aspect influences you to be more emotional than your average Aquarian. Wearing your heart on your sleeve! :) I have to take a look at your chart, I forgot what other planets you have, other than your Aquarian stellium! The Aquarius detachment, I think, is more like the ability to be unbiased when in a debate. Or my Venus in Aquarius influence, I tend to flutter from friend to friend depending on my mood. It's sort of like, being unable to get close to somebody... For example, when somebody asks me something personal about my life (I have trust issues!), I'll flutter onto someone else until they try to get close to me. If I'm remembering correctly, you have Venus in Pisces right? I think that aspect influences you to be more emotional than your average Aquarian. Wearing your heart on your sleeve! :)

I have to take a look at your chart, I forgot what other planets you have, other than your Aquarian stellium!

The Aquarius detachment, I think, is more like the ability to be unbiased when in a debate.

Or my Venus in Aquarius influence, I tend to flutter from friend to friend depending on my mood. It's sort of like, being unable to get close to somebody… For example, when somebody asks me something personal about my life (I have trust issues!), I'll flutter onto someone else until they try to get close to me.

]]> By: taurusrising http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-71 taurusrising Wed, 19 Aug 2009 06:12:20 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-71 Wow, five planets in Scorpio! That's a lot of intensity. :) I love that you're also a Taurus rising ~ do you feel that gives you the mask of being grounded with your emotions? Also, thank you for commenting! I love to see new posters on here! Wow, five planets in Scorpio! That's a lot of intensity. :) I love that you're also a Taurus rising ~ do you feel that gives you the mask of being grounded with your emotions?

Also, thank you for commenting! I love to see new posters on here!

]]> By: taurusrising http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-70 taurusrising Wed, 19 Aug 2009 06:09:05 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-70 Wow, I'm glad that I'm not the only one (along with the other commenters!) that feels the same way about Scorpio stelliums. I agree that it's self-preservation and a defense mechanism. I feel the same way about retreating to restore... because after a while, I will "get over it", but I admit, it's very hard for me to let go of things. By the way, thank you for commenting on my post! I don't get a lot of comments, so it's nice to see some new faces around here. :) Wow, I'm glad that I'm not the only one (along with the other commenters!) that feels the same way about Scorpio stelliums. I agree that it's self-preservation and a defense mechanism. I feel the same way about retreating to restore… because after a while, I will "get over it", but I admit, it's very hard for me to let go of things.

By the way, thank you for commenting on my post! I don't get a lot of comments, so it's nice to see some new faces around here. :)

]]> By: bnmotion http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-66 bnmotion Sun, 16 Aug 2009 17:40:31 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-66 I'm a Cappy with a Pisces moon and Scorpio stellium which included both Mars and Venus in Scorpio. What you said below describes me to a "T".... "I attacked because I felt violated....heart was crushed, but you wouldn’t have been able to tell that. I was so cold.....Poker face....SO said that I didn’t even seem to have any emotion." I can look at and THROUGH that person who hurt me in the same glance and make it obvious by my presence alone that I am removed from them. I have been told by various people on the receiving end of my cold shoulder that there is nothing colder. I have attributed this to Scorpio. And as not just a deserving consequence, but really, as a self-protective mechanism. Scorpio for me has been a double edged sword, one side magnifies intensity, depth and passion, the flip side of that being pain is much deeper and more profound. So I have to remove myself to some extent to deal with it. I not only shut that person out, but I retreat within to restore myself and possibly to establish healthier boundaries so I am not hurt again. Self-preservation I feel is the inner motive. Atleast for me. I'm a Cappy with a Pisces moon and Scorpio stellium which included both Mars and Venus in Scorpio. What you said below describes me to a "T"….
"I attacked because I felt violated….heart was crushed, but you wouldn’t have been able to tell that. I was so cold…..Poker face….SO said that I didn’t even seem to have any emotion."
I can look at and THROUGH that person who hurt me in the same glance and make it obvious by my presence alone that I am removed from them. I have been told by various people on the receiving end of my cold shoulder that there is nothing colder.
I have attributed this to Scorpio. And as not just a deserving consequence, but really, as a self-protective mechanism. Scorpio for me has been a double edged sword, one side magnifies intensity, depth and passion, the flip side of that being pain is much deeper and more profound. So I have to remove myself to some extent to deal with it.
I not only shut that person out, but I retreat within to restore myself and possibly to establish healthier boundaries so I am not hurt again. Self-preservation I feel is the inner motive. Atleast for me.

]]> By: nes-scorptau http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-64 nes-scorptau Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:03:27 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-64 I am a scorpio sun, moon,mercury, venus,pluto :) with taurus rising and mars in libra. I am very detached and even though I did not want to admit it I have seen for myself that I cannot communicate with people the way it should be. Later, I tried to communicate just as all people are doing and I felt really really bored and not right. So I gave it up again. I will just sit and listen when people are talking if I am there. I just do not have any will to speak in occasions. However, in small groups I am so attached. I can easily be discovered and I will have much fun with my small group of friends only to become detached again once we leave each other. HOwever.. I am very protective of those I love - I would die for them and would never even care if they cannot give anything in return. If I trust them and if i have a reason for myself to protect them, I will. And it will be my purpose of life. I am kind of a samurai, really hehe ^_^ I am a scorpio sun, moon,mercury, venus,pluto :) with taurus rising and mars in libra. I am very detached and even though I did not want to admit it I have seen for myself that I cannot communicate with people the way it should be. Later, I tried to communicate just as all people are doing and I felt really really bored and not right. So I gave it up again. I will just sit and listen when people are talking if I am there. I just do not have any will to speak in occasions. However, in small groups I am so attached. I can easily be discovered and I will have much fun with my small group of friends only to become detached again once we leave each other. HOwever.. I am very protective of those I love – I would die for them and would never even care if they cannot give anything in return. If I trust them and if i have a reason for myself to protect them, I will. And it will be my purpose of life. I am kind of a samurai, really hehe ^_^

]]> By: AquariusIII http://www.taurusrising.net/2009/08/detachment-scorpio-vs-aquarius/comment-page-1/#comment-62 AquariusIII Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:41:12 +0000 http://www.taurusrising.net/?p=275#comment-62 I just found out I'm a rare feelings oriented Aquarius so I don't think the detachment thing could apply to me ever. I'm a sap too, I will cry anytime I feel someone has deliberately hurt my feelings. If it's a stranger I wont' care and what they say won't even phaze me. Maybe thats where the detachement comes in? Although!! Push my buttons to that limit that no one should ever push them too and I fly off the handle and my words become daggers. Many a times I'm talking to my Gemmy that I'm dating and he tries to ruffle my feathers because he loves to see me get angry. it's cute to him I guess :-| and I have to be careful with my mouth because 9 times out of 10 what I say to him will be cruel and cold and def insure his sensitive nature that he tries to hide so well from me. I let him win because I know he's playing with me when he kids with me....where as I won't be kidding. I always tell ppl. Don't pick a fight with me because I get downright nasty and fight dirty with words. I just found out I'm a rare feelings oriented Aquarius so I don't think the detachment thing could apply to me ever. I'm a sap too, I will cry anytime I feel someone has deliberately hurt my feelings. If it's a stranger I wont' care and what they say won't even phaze me. Maybe thats where the detachement comes in?

Although!!

Push my buttons to that limit that no one should ever push them too and I fly off the handle and my words become daggers. Many a times I'm talking to my Gemmy that I'm dating and he tries to ruffle my feathers because he loves to see me get angry. it's cute to him I guess :-| and I have to be careful with my mouth because 9 times out of 10 what I say to him will be cruel and cold and def insure his sensitive nature that he tries to hide so well from me. I let him win because I know he's playing with me when he kids with me….where as I won't be kidding.

I always tell ppl. Don't pick a fight with me because I get downright nasty and fight dirty with words.

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